What Types Are Socially Compatible With ESTPs? | Cognitive Functions | CS Joseph

hey guys see us Joseph see us Joseph thought life doing our second episode here on YouTube and on the podcast for social compatibility today's type we're gonna be discussing his TV because apparently that's like what we do around here is discuss nothing but is TPS for some reason and you take another Hughes TV video right away is just bad guess what there's another one so I guess we're gonna be discussing these TPS for a little bit but I mean that's what we do so anyway let's just do a dive into these because I'm concerned that they're a little repetitive and I don't want to get too repetitive with these so I kinda want to go through them a little bit quicker so we're just going to be doing talk for compatibility and lowest of four Kapow compatibility exploring them and how the cognitive functions work etc just remember this is social compatibility also known as friendship compatibility and that's based off of shoulder to shoulder compatibility which is also known as professional compatibility and face to face compatibility which is intimate compatibility or sexual compatibility or even parental compatibility and friendship compatibility also known as social compatibility are basically these two average together these two algorithms average together than a weighted average and you get friendship compatibility aka social compatibility and that's how we came up with this list so estjs are compatible with s Jane's first and P's second SP third and J's fourth and then to break it down even further st james and appease s MJ's MTPs n TJ's s fps NF J's and fellow STPs last in terms of ability why is that well I mean you wouldn't want to date your brother or your sister you want to be friends necessarily with your brother and sister if they like the same type of you that's just gonna lead to competition and who's the better he is TP er who's the better is T V or who's the better STP like that would suck so why do that anyway here is the complete list of the friendship your social compatibility for the es teepees with the persuaders as a result of the output of the algorithm which is is CJ ESTJ INFP ENFP is FJ e sm j IM TP entp int j ENTJ es FP or is FB excuse me es FP infj en MJ is DP and estp at the bottom yes a lot to say in a little bit of time sure anyway top for compatibility remember the rule is the shortest distance between two points is a straight line and introverted functions are source functions and extroverted functions are trying to consume the source functions like pac-man so you have expert at sensing trying to consume si why is that used if he's want to give other people an experience and introverted sensing hero's want to receive the experience from these TPS and expert thinking from the ICJ is looking for the logic of TI parents remember we have is TJ and he is TP right here same thing with the introverted feeling so I see J's like to feel good about themselves est peas want to make them feel better so there's no conflict there and IFC J's are all about what other people want the easy peas are trying to figure out what they want actually just a little secure about what other people want but they're both insecure in that area so again cancels out in the problem definitely compatible I see J's are worried about giving es si peas a bad experience and est peas are already worried about having a bad experience so it's not a problem is d J's are very critical over what they think es TPS are constantly critical towards what everyone else thinks anyway and because the ICJ's already critical what they think they're already pretty good so that can be a good or bad thing depending on the relationship but in this relationship it's not a bad thing because again once already critical the other ones critiquing errorless thinking anyway and the estp is not really aware probably feel but good thing the is DJ's not aware of how anyone feels anyway so no conflict right and the SCP does not give a damn about whether people want and the ICJ doesn't give a damn about what they want because they're very dutiful they're not about what they want they're all about what they should do so late and compatibility all the way across Shores this between two points straight line and also these cognitive functions that they're seeking their counterpart are not breaking into the unconscious side of their minds they're staying in the ego which is super important for compatibility yeah the ESTJ plus estp relationship same thing it's basically the same as the ICJ the difference is there's a little bit of humility and the functions why is that well it's because you have the parents seeking the hero and hero seeking the parent and this hero parent relationship super high compatibility yes and they behaved very similarly the difference is is that the heroes don't really see don't really have a risk of being challenged so if you look at this relationship as a hero may think it's better than si here or si hero might think it's better than si hero and there is a chance of friendly competition developing in this kind of relationship but in this one not so much because Ti is one level down as a parent for example for the estp and TI parent although i mean te hero still basically has reins on thinking in the relationship but as te heroes saving the world and whatnot TI parent could be telling the hero like the parents on the year-old like stop saving the world like this because you're putting the children at risk and it's going to cause a problem right so collateral damage because the parent exists to protect the children aka the child functions and the parent is warning the hero hey hold on you're going to cause collateral damage and guess what the hero always listens to the parent even you know sometimes heroes don't necessarily listen to fellow heroes why is that wolves because they both optimistic at the top but the parentals are very pessimistic sometimes optimist need to hear pessimism so that they behave wisely right and that's why there is some latent built in humility within this relationship making it also super super powerful and super compatible for the estp and the ESTJ and if you also notice there is no going into the unconscious which keeps it very compatible all the functions and their needs are within the ego and readily accessible at all times right so it is pretty dope the STP and the Insp this is a very interesting relationship actually knows somebody who is married to an INFP and from a friendship standpoint it's the top third slot for EST PS it can actually work out pretty well because you have inferior functions seeking the parent functions or parent functions taking the inferior functions and then you have hero functions working with children and the children functions where you at the hero here are functions really do you like the child they like to pick up the child stick them on their shoulder and fly away you know what I mean it can be a really good relationship in the child is like on this gravy train of wow this is really fun you know what I mean so it can get in that direction also inferior functions can actually develop a little bit because that's because the parent functions like TI parent actually helps te inferior developer warranty and for your ends up feet becoming a lot more intelligent launch stronger with its ability to organize gothic BOTS be you know gather more reference points it really can stretch t inferiors ability to really leverage what it knows or leverage what other people know especially when it reads books and gathers reference points and tries to become its own Library of Alexandria also it's great about this is that these TPS have infj subconscious and i fj's conscious is super compatible with INFP ego and the as the INFP is developing its a personal philosophy the estp gets off on that personal philosophy because it wants to execute and deliver that personal philosophy to others as the IFP develops it and infps all set there est J subconscious which really helps is TPS because then they can help estp stay organized for example and actually get things done and take care of a lot of tasks that the estp just doesn't have anything to deal with like especially paperwork let's be honest so awesome they also they don't go down to the shadow area as well they stay up here in the ego so there is readily available now the ENFP EST be kind of similar story to the to the INF be the difference is that the inferior functions are getting hit by the hero functions and the hero function can be too much for the inferior functions in this relationship like for example an est P could give such a huge experience to si inferior that invents the ENFP super uncomfortable or the ENFP is just like throwing a whole bunch of unlimited options and unlimited what if that it continues to make the est piece ni inferior insecure and actually it can leave them into failure to launch syndrome or just they just become unable to make any decision because we just feel so overwhelmed with all the possibilities that the ENFP is presenting that still is compatible though it is top 4 within the friendship compatibility the social compatibility and it can definitely work from a friend's standpoint when I recommend this relationship for an intimate relationship I mean it can't happen and I've seen it happen but probably not optimal because of that especially because it's a one-on-one relationship but when you're like a mixture of one-on-one of a face to face and shoulder to shoulder and have that friendship you know barrier up because ok you know we're friends but not closer it cetera this relationship can actually work in that in that context etc so anyway that is the top 4 most compatible on this side let's be going to the Mac compatible side and you can already see that it's a show because look at this huge traffic jam we have here these functions are all these functions are having a jump into the unconscious instead of saying that you know they're not getting me fed by any other functions within the ego and it's just this giant traffic jam it's like it's like a radio that's being jammed it requires so much mental energy to just jump down below there for all these functions to be able to make contact with these other functions down here and up here and it's just absolutely crazy ENFJ it's similar to traffic jams and this in this area and on top of that this really long range trying to get remember shortest distance between two points is a straight line and your function they're trying to consume other functions and have relationships definitely want to have something closer to you definitely want to have something more readily available especially within the ego otherwise if it's not there right across in someone else's ego it takes a lot of mental energy and this and these relationships are insanely draining for estp is so draining that they will often have to completely withdraw and then go extrovert elsewhere like go to a bar one night you see est pees drinking chances are it's because they are there with friends with NF J's or fellow STPs you know in a friendship sense because they're just so stressed out by the amount of mental energy it takes them to handle this right you know and and remember this is this is all friendship based some of these relationships are different when it comes to like working professional relationships there can be professional relationships with these as a result but again you know like like professionally speaking Andy's tp+ these team that shoulder shoulders that's more like okay yeah you're like my brother and my sister but again it's very shallow it's very neutral but in a friendship situation I wouldn't recommend it because that just leaves the competition look at how far these this punches have to travel you have the hero function trying to eat the nemesis or in this relationship up here which is ionic you have the hero function trying to consume the demon or the demon trying to consume the hero function it's just not going to work on top of the interference that you have to deal with it's just definitely not going to work and you know STP verse on STP relationships that's also unwise because again it just leads to competition I'm smarter than you or I'm more mechanically capable than you are I have a better understanding of physics and science than you ever would III know simple machines better than you do and it just turns into conflict that is very wrong with conflict whereas the NF J's the EST v walks around the NF J's realized and thinks that the EST P is more wise than them and then they're willing to prove it to them and that can actually cause damage to be each other's relationships of reputations etc we can actually turn into a lot of collateral damage how Webb Burke NF J's do teach is tepees a lot about themselves because is teepees are trying to be that infj subconscious and they can actually learn from fellow NF Jays from a distance and observe them and how they behave to learn how they can optimize or improve their area of their own subconscious right so it is remembered just because you're not compatible if the type doesn't mean that you should not be having a relationship with them having incompatible types around you or in court because it sharpens you there's an old adage as iron sharpens iron so does one man to another likely those two men had incompatible relationships and they just sharply each other they make them better men and that's also important for EE STPs to realize because that ni inferior needs to be okay and i inferior needs to be okay with failure and seeking failure because through failure they gain wisdom and that wisdom is what they need to activate their infj subconscious and become in even more integrated and mature estp right and guess what fellow MFJ is actually help show that to be as TPS from which they can learn especially like because how many times we've heard of the estp that goes on some spiritual journey and they meant a guru which was likely an nfj you know what I mean that's where that concept come from very incompatible but enough to give the estp the wisdom that they're looking forward to develop their own wisdom give them the experiences even if it's a native experience from which they can draw wisdom from they mean to draw wisdom from failure to remember wisdom which is the token power of the infj cannot come without suffering I can't comfort anyone into wisdom write wisdom comes from suffering and suffering comes from failure that's why failure is the greatest teacher and those where you get wisdom right again this is how it happens from a tight compatibility standpoint incompatibility is useful yeah sure just you know I'm not asking to be friends your guru right there a teacher it's different so learn from incompatible types let them be your teacher but I'm not asking to be friends this is friends compatibility you know social compatibility for friends okay fair enough so not necessarily applicable but that's why these relationships are still important to have anyway remember so remember highest probability up here top four top six and it gets really neutral and it starts getting negative you want to keep the negative compatibility at a more of an acquaintance point of view very shallow kind of relationship keep them like at arm's length as an acquaintance and that's it's the same with any type that I would recommend that with so anyway that is the estp social compatibility if you found this lecture educational and helpful useful please subscribe to the channel here on youtube and on the podcast leave a like while you're at it if you have any questions about estp compatibility please leave in the comment section and I won't answer your comments someone just informed me today that I was not paying any attention to the discussion Common so my channel they are 100% I completely missed those my bad 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