Christian Lady Questions Muslim On Polygamy! Muhammed Ali

start comparing their wife and then they end up going and cheating. Islam says you have to be a man. You take care of the woman. Your wife knows there's another wife that you're going to get married to. There's no games being played around. You're taking care of a family. It's proper. And Allah says it's not like Allah said you can marry just like this. Allah says in the Quran, you're allowed to marry more than one but with a condition. You have to treat them equally. If you're not able to treat them equally, Allah said think you are cheating. It's not what it's cheating. It's not. It's marriage. How can marriage be considered cheating? It's not cuz you're saying to your wife, I am marrying someone else. You're not doing it behind her back. You're not marrying a woman and going behind her back or you're marrying. No, your wife knows you're married to someone else. That's how you're going to be just because you're going whatever you give this one wife, you'll give to the other wife. The first wife has to I I will come to that. But first I'm giving you an an understanding that it's not like people think only Islam has this idea. No, in reality in the west there's something which is way worse which unlimited amount of girlfriends if you want or if you look at Christianity hundreds of wives that prophets had that God had never issued no issues with right. So it's not something specific to Islam. Right now after that now we see now how beautiful Islam is. I'm going to come to you step by step. That's the first thing right. The second thing is this. Allah created us men and women, right? And he gave us certain roles in society and he made our physiology different from one another. Now when you have in human history, you always had more women than men. Do you know why? Now if every man marries a woman like you say one man, one woman, what do we do with them? You give me solution. The solution is to marry. No, you tell. Okay. That's the that's what the solution is not, right? Yeah, I ask you why is the solution though? You tell me. If you say that's not the solution, then why is the solution? Because in the end, these women also want love. They also want a husband. They also want to stay with someone, right? Uh some of these women will be widows, their husband dies, divorcees, they have children, they need someone to take care of them. What are we going to do? How do we solve this problem? You know, in Ghana, Ghana is predominately a Christian country. the Ghanaian president not too long ago he said to the people look we're Christians but marry more than one wife said look we got to solve this issue guys we need a solution there's you know imagine imagine I I'll tell you I'll tell you this question imagine every man married a wife and you were one of the seven or four million women wouldn't you say being with a husband being treated equally in a marriage with a loving husband that would treat me equally everything is open everything is there is that better or saying I'm going going to remain single. I'm going to not but yeah do you know how many do you know how many women are married as second and third wives there's many women that accept it right maybe one woman does not agree with it but there's many women that have the choice and decision to make like that but still you agree with me you're not offering a solution right there has to be a solution and God made us but the question is why are there more women than men anyways do you know why why there's more women than men because men go to war do not go to Men work dangerous jobs. Women work safer jobs. The infant, the baby infant is women. The female is stronger than the male. There are reasons that are natural. If you want to use that term for all these while you will have more women than men. Look at Ukraine as an example today. Who's fighting? Men are all dying now. Women are staying in the home. You end up with millions of women. You don't have men. How do you solve that issue? We have to. God created us. He knows us. He knows what will work for our situation and what will not work for our situation. Unless you want 50/50 men go to war, women go to war. I don't know what that is because you know what happens in war is not something pleasant. Especially as a woman, what can happen to you if you go to war is something you would never wish on yourself. That's all I'm going to say. I'm not going to go to details what that means, right? But you can imagine what I'm trying to say. It's not a place for a woman to be anyways. Uh so Allah knows all of that. Now is that it? No. I'll even add you more you know Islam is a rational religion as well. So in Islam there is a the uh full choice of a woman before you get married to someone you can put a in the contract in the marriage contract saying that I don't want my you to marry more than one wife that's why before you get no wait are you wait before that before that let me let me explain it fully right so you're going to get married you're allowed but this is how marriages work it's with agreement A husband, a woman might find a good husband that she cannot find somewhere else. And he will say that's my I want to keep that. Not necessarily I'm going to marry another wife. But if you want to, if you love me and you want to be with me, or if you see me as someone that you're not going to find someone else like these are my conditions and a woman might say, okay, I'm beautiful. I'm from this family, I'm rich and whatever it is, these are my conditions. Marriage is about agreement in there, right? It's about two people that are compatible with one another. So that marriage contract is about people agreeing to terms and agreements with one another, right? And if they agree, you get married. If they don't, you can always find someone else. Right? It's how things are. So in Islam, there's a marriage contract. The woman is allowed to put a condition that okay, I don't want my husband to marry more than one wife. But that doesn't mean he cannot marry more than one wife. Let me explain. He can still do that in the future because that's something that God allowed him to do. And you cannot say he could not allow do something that God didn't allow. But if he does, then you're allowed to break the marriage. Now you get that that thing. You're allowed to break the marriage and you keep your marital gift. when he marries you something called mah used to give you right money gold this that she's looking at you know look I'm not helping you with this conversation you know I'm on the side the woman in this conversation so once you get that marital gift in the marriage the woman gets from the man if he breaks the marriage contract she can dissolve the marriage contract she know how if she leaves the mar separate there's no issues No issues. Anything that Allah allows in Islam, you're not allowed to speak about and say, "I like this or that." It's not your your business. He's the creator, right? The one who makes the rule in Islam, he's the creator, God. I'm not God. He's not God. When God said to me, you see a woman you're going to marry, he said to him, you're going to marry this woman. You're going to have to provide for her. She doesn't pay a penny. You're going to have to pay for the housing. You're going to for the clothing. You're going to have to pay for the food. You It's not your choice. If she needs protection, you'll have to protect her. We cannot say, "Oh, God." But you know why she doesn't have to pay half 50/50 as well in there. God said it. We accept it. Nobody comes and complains. I don't see women never I never had a woman came. That's it. Why does God say the man have to pay my bills? I didn't see a woman saying that. Right? Why? Because it's good for the women, right? But we don't complain. As men, we say, "Okay, Allah say that we accept you. We'll do it. I'm going to work. I'm going to provide." But of course, there are certain things you do, obligations also. You get certain privileges. Vice versa. Some for the women, some for the man. And the nature of the man and woman are different. No man, no sound man that is a real man will ever accept that his wife to be married to another man. It's not it doesn't happen. The psychology of the man doesn't you'll understand that very well. It doesn't work. It's not it's never going to register in the man's mind. But it does register in the woman's mind. And it did. And that's why in the west they have something called what? Side side chick. I have the main chick and and they all know it's not marriage, right? But they know this guy is with four girls. She's a side chick number one. Side chick number two. Side chick number I'm I'm the mat check. And they live their lives. They say, "Oh, we're allowed." Right? They know these things and they do it. I'm not talking. We're not Do you say, "Oh, Islam, four wives, bad bad. Oh, no, no." But they do all of this stuff on the side, right? Yeah. This hypocrisy, right? Allah created us. He knows our nature. But he still given all of these rights I told you to the woman. So if you really want when it comes to the rights of women when it comes to marriage there's no other religion on earth that will give the woman more rights than Islam does whether it's atheism Christianity anything else it will never give you anything like that you know in Christianity if you take the opinion it's only one wife you can never divorce from your husband if he beats you or he's abusive you cannot according to Christianity the only reason is is adultery he has to cheat and if he cheats you cannot marry anyone else after divorce happens you you're done for life that's it you married him bad he cheated cannot marry anyone else. That's what Christianity teaches. Is that good? No. It is. You want me to show you in the Bible where Jesus says that? I will. Of course. It's not. Look, I'm not going to give you claims. I'm going to give you look cuz you might not take my word for it, but let me show you the verse where Jesus says that Jesus no divorce without Yes. He says that adultery. Without adultery. Sure. Sure. Sure. We'll read the verses. We'll read the verses now. No more Matthew. Just pulling up the verses. Matthew 5:31 and 32. [Music] Okay. Christ. So first he tells them about adultery. Cannot commit adultery. Then we go to divorce. It has been said anyone who divorces his wife must give her a certificate of divorce. But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife except for sexual immorality makes her a victim of adultery. You cannot divorce except for sexual immorality. Right? Or anyone marries a divorced woman commits adultery. So if you marry a divorced woman that's adultery. So if he divorced, if he committed adultery and you are divorced now, if I want to marry you, that's adultery. So how can you marry you? You cannot marry anyone after because according to this verse here, Jesus, by the way, I don't believe Jesus talk about rights of marriage and any of that, there's no other religion on earth that will give you more rights than Islam. We don't have something like this ever. If a wife is is being abused or whatever it is, she's allowed to separate. It's called daughter you do divorce out of harm because he's harming you. He's he's causing you harm. You go to the court and then he separate you from him. So there is nothing else that will give you better uh rights in Islam when it comes to marriage other than nothing else. No ideology in the world. I'll give you look this is by the way Romanian. Do you want me to give you the Romanian? Yes. Yes. I'll give you the Romanian better than the English, right? Uh do you want do you need a bag or you can hold it? Which one? Yeah. Can you give me Khaled? Can you give me a back, please? Yeah. Do you have any other questions? What do you What else do you want to read about the Bible? Yeah. Yeah. Oh. Oh, let me give you another verse before you go. You really, if you really want to read the Bible about women, let me read Let me show you what the Bible says about women. Wait, cuz everyone likes to talk about the Quran, but you don't talk about the Bible. Look, the Bible says, "No, as I said, I do respect Islam. I do. [Music] You fast with him in Ramadan, you respect Islam." Okay. Yeah. No, no, of course. Of course. But I just wanted to show you a lot of women, they hear a lot of bad things, uh, lies about Islam and women like they talk about four wives. They never tell you the details I told you, right? But they just say, "Oh, men are bad in Islam. Do you want have you just you hear these bad things?" But no one hears what the Bible says also about women. Why don't you bring that? Why don't you bring what the Bible says? Like the Bible says if the woman in 1 Corinthians chapter 11, if you read verse 6 and 7, it says that if a woman does not cover her head, it should be shaved. You know, you bring it go machine to the barber cover your head. Sorry. Sorry. No, that's what the Bible says. Islam doesn't say you're going to Islam doesn't say you shave your head. She doesn't cover it. Islam says the woman should cover her head. But it doesn't say if she doesn't shave her head. That's what the Bible says. The Bible says the woman uh needs to obey, of course, and listen to the man. The man is superior. Uh because the woman is the one that did made the mistake and ate from the tree, not the man. And the woman have pregnancy as a punishment for Eve eating from the tree. And women should learn. This is a blessing. I'm pregnant by the way. It's a blessing. I agree. Okay. So, it is. But the Bible The Bible is saying it's a punishment. Islam. Islam. Islam says in I show you. You don't believe me? I'll show you. I'll show you. Look, you don't have to believe anything I say. I'll I'll show you what the Bible itself says. Look, pain of pregnancy. I just Google I'll show you. Bane of pregnancy. [Music] Some people they recite. Now, let's see. Jesus every single day here. [Music] Here uh you can find it in Genesis but you can also find it in other other places. So Genesis 3:16. What is the the verses? Let me get the verses. Genesis 3. [Music] Genesis 3 16 look uh read full chapter. Okay here the woman said the serpent deceived me and I ate when she ate from the tree. Eve when she ate from the tree now look what God what God says. Yeah don't believe God said that but that's what the Bible says. So the Lord said to the serpent because you have done this cursed are you above all uh livestock and animals to the serpent right etc etc you and I will put the enmity between you and the woman and between your offspring and hers I will crush your head and I will strike your heel to the woman he said I will make pains and child during very severe with painful labor you will give birth to child your desire will be for your husband and he will rule over you so that why did he say that to the woman as a punishment because she ate from the tree you will have this severe pain in in in childbirth. Just like he said to the serpent, I'm going to destroy you. That's what the Bible says. Okay. Not only that, wait. I'm going to show you more. You want me to read the Bible? I'll read the Bible. I don't I don't usually like reading the Okay, wait. Let me try and show you the rest of what the Bible says. Trust me. Look, I don't know how a lot of women can can read the Bible and still say, "I'm going to be a Christian." It's very hard. Look, look, this is here in in in first, this is Bible Bible gateway, Christian website, 1 Timothy 2, we read here. Look, uh, let's read about the woman. I also want women to dress modestly, etc., adoring themselves. And then he says, a woman should learn in quietness and submission. Should be quiet when you're learning. Submit and be quiet. That's what this is why Islam say no. I agree. No, it doesn't say that. Islam does not say the woman should learn in quietness. Islam doesn't say the woman cannot talk submission. Yes. Sorry. Why there countries Islamic countries where they are woman they they can't talk in a public they can't they can which Islamic country name one [Music] that trust me there's no Islamic country where women cannot talk in public. Look I'm I'm Arab myself. I've been all over the Middle East right? It's not a single Muslim country where this is the case. No, but you saw something doesn't mean it's true. You saw someone who lied about Muslims or Islam. And remember I told you women see so many lies about women in Islam. They try to push women away from Islam by showing them these things. This is one of them. It's not true. Look, I should not permit a woman to teach or assume authority over over a man. So women shouldn't teach according to the Bible. Women teach in Islam. There's no issues, right? says that we are equal. She must be quiet. I'm reading the Bible. Show me. Where does it say they're equal? But there you go. It's not the same Bible. Where is your Where is your Bible? You have your Bible. I don't have Okay. When you go home, I'll give you the notes. Trust me, you will go home, you read, and you will see every verse I told you is the same. Go ahead. Let me give you the references. You want me to write down the references for you? So you see you don't just know look it's hard to accept based what the Bible says and by the way I didn't finish reading you want me to finish it it will be even worse if I finish you so so what the Bible says look I don't think any Christians or can come and say Islam is bad to her because it's not Islam gives women her rights Islam give women rights way more before any western country or anyone gave women rights they honored women in pre-Islamic times women uh they were property can buy them and sell them they were horouses says with signs women would walk naked in the street and if you take the woman if you want you like her you take her they were not allowed inheritance were not taking any inheritance women in pre-Islamic times in in Arabia they were not and uh they feel shame if they had a woman a woman why because they fight wars and they want men they don't want women so they feel ashamed if they get a gliding of a woman when Islam came they used to bury their daughters alive before Islam because they didn't want daughters a daughter come they used to bury them and when Islam came it changed all of [Music] give rights to the woman, she gets inheritance. The prophet said women are equal to to men when it comes to accountability and responsibility in front of God. What you said the Bible says which doesn't say prophet. Okay. So if you're really looking for these things that honors a woman or gives gives her right, you'll find it in Islam. But you will not find it in Christianity. You'll study. Okay, good. Do it. Read. Just all you have to do is read. First verse read revealed in the Quran is read. the the more you read, the more you see that it's telling is true, you know. Just make sure just Google verses about women in the Bible. It's not difficult to find, you know. You don't have to tell people just go straight and read the Bible. I've read the Bible personally. I've read that's how I'm telling you these things because I've read the Bible and that's why I always ask. Sorry. I give you the reference, the number. Yes, I give you the number because you don't believe me. If I tell you when I told you the verses, I told you first Corinthian uh 1 Corinthians 11:6 says that you didn't believe me. The other one I open it for you to read and I said this is a Christian website because you're not believing me. I told you it says that. No, it doesn't say. So I open it for you. I'm not googling because I don't know the verse. I'm googling because you're not believing me. I told you about Matthew Jesus, right? About divorce. You said I don't believe you. So I open the verse and I show you. That's the only reason. Not because I don't know the verse. I've read it and I know it very well. But most Christians do not read the Bible. If Christians read the Bible, they will not be Christian. Some crabs. Just give me a read. You see, just give me a read. If you have any other have any other questions, I know that's too much already today. It's a pleasure to talk to you guys. Yes. Give me a read. Bye-bye. See you. Bye.